Showing posts with label to my future children. Show all posts
Showing posts with label to my future children. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

to my future children


We went camping over the long weekend. Camping is another thing that reminds me of family. 
(on our way into Monterey, Chris cleared a fallen branch from the road). 

Lately I have been thinking about the specific relationships I have with the family members who come before and after me. I think about the personality traits, beliefs, and traditions we share, and the impact we have on each other. Part of that thought process includes the poem below, which reminds me of my parents and grandparents, and the gardens I hope to grow with my family when we move out of our studio apartment.

britt

Lonely Harvest
by Margaret S. Mullins

As a child, my father helped me dig
a square of dense red clay, marked off rows
where zinnias would grow,
and radishes and tender spinach leaves.
He'd stand with me each night
as daylight drained away
to talk about our crops leaning on his hoe
as I would practice leaning so on mine.

Years later now in my big garden plot,
the soggy remnant stems of plants
flopped over several months ago,
the ground is so cold, the berries gone,
the stakes like hungry sentries
stand guarding empty graves. And still
I hear his voice asking what I think
would best be planted once the weather warms.


Monday, May 14, 2012

to my future children

This is a picture Chris snapped at the Stanford Powwow last week. 

For twenty-two years I thought I was 1/16 Native American. That delusional, pale-faced fantasy ended in 2009, when your Uncle Spencer asked what tribe our great grandma was in. A brief fact-check into Horman family history revealed that Adeline Coolbear’s British accent was so indecipherable that Salt Lake City Mormons thought she was speaking the native Ute language. This is hilarious to everyone except me, and the pain of this discovery is something I will spare you by telling you that you are not 1/32 Native American. Assuming the SPF 95 you’re wearing to your piano lesson didn’t tip you off, you are one hundred percent white.

 love you,

 mom and dad

Friday, October 15, 2010

To my future children:

this is my outline for one of our past assignments. I took up two entire dry erase boards in addition to this one. These things are kind of intense.
I get my midterm for legal writing today. To me, this midterm carries about as much comedic material as genocide - so I'll pass on the hilarity of my weekend situation, and just share with you what my legal writing professor said in Wednesday's class. After helping us prioritize our research, writing, and editing schedule, she said, "You will have freak out moments. Own it. Really freak out. Just remember that it’s going to be okay." I'm a worrier. I stress out about absolutely everything, but I'm trying to be better. I hope by the time you show up and start needing advice like this, I'll able to give it and have us both believe me. If not, I'd like to be able to say, "Baby - I love you - go talk to your father."

britt